Divorce Not an Option, Relationship Coaching is
admin July 2, 2019
Divorce Not an option Relationship Coaching is
Nearly 20,000 divorce cases are pending at family courts in Kerala, around 3,500 alone in Thiruvananthapuram – the state capital, which makes Kerala the leading state with willingness of divorce among couples. According to a government data collected in 2014, Kerala ruled over five divorce cases every hour, which has only seen a rise over the years as couples are more towards separation than staying together, especially modern professionals.
Media survey suggests that the common abusive relationships in which mostly women stayed back due to lack of economic independence and societal pressure is now no longer a reason for continuing in bad marriages. Though such separation can be justified, the most modern problems or reasons such as ego clashes, non-fulfilment of expectations, compatibility issues, and unwillingness for commitment, also leading to extra-marital affairs, in several cases, cannot be justified and can be worked upon. It is not the mythical ‘perfect couple’ that keeps family or for that matter social fabric together, but it is the ‘healthy couple’.
Now who is this ‘healthy couple’? Being in the pursuit of the perfect man or woman with same set of expectations relationships after relationships, with the hope that happy marriage can be found, is not the answer. The answer lies in understanding that there are
two people in any relationship and no matter what people change, so should relationship dynamics to keep the closeness and understanding that was present during initial days of relationship intact. This very understanding that problems do not disappear soon after separating from the partner and that there is a need to work on self and together as partners is what Relationship/Life Coaching would make you realise.
Relationship/Life Coaching can be an insightful experience for a couple. Coach, who builds professional friendship with the couple concentrates on aligning and empowering relationships as they can be worked upon only when people are aligned. Further, being coached along with the partner can strengthen the relationship. To make this happen, the session will comprise use of assessment tools to find the present status and futuristic goals of the relationship, NLP techniques such as NLP Frames to provide a context, focus or guidance to our thoughts and actions, NLP Representation System for better understanding of couple’s language, NLP Beliefs of Excellence and NLP Communication Model so that the couple can identify their belief sources, its impact on their relationship and thus reduce/remove unhealthy practices to become ‘Healthy Couple’ full of beliefs that promote healthy practices.
To conclude, Relationship/Life Coaching helps couple build supportive relationships by not only recognising, accepting and managing their own feelings, but also other’s feelings by learning to realign one’s beliefs, values and needs. Focusing on realignment of beliefs, values and needs in fact is the driving force for internal motivation and long-lasting bonds as one learns to steadily focus on relationship goals despite upheavals in life. As Relationship Coaching is futuristic in its outlook, it is a must for couples who have the desire to make their relationships work. For effective Relationship Coaching our coaches can support you in cities such as Thiruvananthapuram, Thrissur and Kochi in Kerala, Bangalore and Mangalore in Karnataka, India and United States of America abroad.
Santhosh.V| Life & Executive Coach|www.vivarthanacoaching.com|
www.santhoshvijayanandan.com|+91 9567050001
